About Stefan

A real life, a curious mind, and a simple wish to share.

I am Stefan Motz, retired in Honolulu, Hawaii. This site is where I share practical reflections from a long life of learning, starting over, and returning to inner steadiness.

I was born into a Hungarian family in Transylvania, Romania, and grew up under communism. Life there taught me early that freedom is not abstract. It is something you feel in your body when you do not have it, and something you never take for granted once you do.

My path eventually led through Hungary and then to the United States, a country I had dreamed about since childhood. I taught children, worked different jobs, later built a career in IT, and kept discovering how much the mind can help us through change when we learn to use it with patience.

For many years, I explored the Silva Method, meditation, Transcendental Meditation, Reiki, mindfulness, visualization, and other forms of inner practice. I do not present these as badges or promises. They are simply tools I studied, practiced, questioned, and used in real life.

I created Presence & Progress to share what helped me become calmer, kinder, more grateful, and more present — without hype, pressure, or guru language.

The Longer Path

From restriction to gratitude.

Some people discover mindfulness because life becomes fashionable or peaceful. I came to it because life was often uncertain. Growing up under an authoritarian system, leaving one country for another, rebuilding identity, changing careers, aging, retiring, and learning to live with less fear all taught me the same lesson: the outer world may not always be calm, but we can learn to meet it with a steadier inner life.

That does not mean pretending everything is fine. It means learning to pause, breathe, think clearly, soften anger, notice small blessings, and choose the next honest step.

Life Chapter

Transylvania and Romania

I was born into a Hungarian family in Romania and grew up under communism, where freedom, travel, and honest speech were never things to take for granted.

Life Chapter

Hungary

Later I lived in Hungary, where I worked as an elementary school teacher. Teaching children helped me understand patience, attention, and the quiet power of encouragement.

Life Chapter

The United States

Coming to the United States was the fulfillment of a childhood dream. I worked different jobs, later became an IT developer for a major airline, and kept learning how to start again.

Life Chapter

Honolulu, Hawaii

Today I am retired in Honolulu, grateful for quiet walks, ocean air, family, writing, learning, and the chance to share what helped me along the way.

What This Site Is

Practical inner work without performance.

I am not here to tell you what to believe, sell certainty, or claim that one technique solves every problem. My approach is simple: try what is useful, stay honest, keep your feet on the ground, and let practice make you more human.

The best inner work I know does not make us superior. It makes us more patient, more compassionate, more awake to ordinary life, and less trapped by fear.

Tools I Explored

Not credentials to impress you. Practices I tested in life.

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Practice Area

Silva Method

Relaxed focus, mental imagery, and practical mind training for clarity and inner steadiness.

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Where to Begin

Choose the doorway that fits your day.

A Gentle Note

Use what helps. Leave what does not.

The practices on this site are offered for relaxation, self-development, reflection, and personal growth. They are not medical care, and they do not replace qualified professional support when that support is needed.

My invitation is simple: start small, stay curious, and notice what helps you become calmer, kinder, clearer, and more alive in ordinary daily life.