Sesame and Lilies

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What the book is about

Sesame and Lilies is a collection of lectures by John Ruskin that explores the value of true education, the power and responsibilities of women, the nature of art and labor, and the social duties of individuals, especially the privileged. Ruskin begins by urging readers to build a small, carefully chosen library of books that endure beyond the fleeting news and gossip of the day. He distinguishes between books of the hour—ephemeral writings—and books of all time, which carry lasting wisdom. He warns against reading to confirm one’s own opinions and encourages patient, disciplined study to grasp an author’s true meaning.

Ruskin addresses young women directly, cautioning against pride in religious knowledge, idleness, and cruelty born of selfishness or complacency. He encourages practical skills like music, drawing, and sewing for the poor, emphasizing usefulness over showiness. He challenges privileged women to consider their relation to the poor and the meaning of true thanksgiving, including a letter from a French lady warning against luxury and extravagance.

The author critiques the superficial ambitions of society, including the pursuit of social applause and the neglect of true Christian compassion. He contrasts false religious authority with the ideal of bishops who intimately care for every individual, especially the poor and suffering. Ruskin presents literary examples—Shakespeare’s wise and heroic women, Walter Scott’s dignified female characters, Dante’s spiritual guides, and noble Greek women—to argue that women hold a queenly power as moral and intellectual guides essential to social harmony. He calls for women to claim this power responsibly, extending from the home to public duties of order, comfort, and justice.

Ruskin reflects on the sacredness of home as a place of peace ruled by women, and on education suitable for girls, emphasizing health, happiness, knowledge, and access to serious literature and art. He warns against women engaging in theology without humility, as it risks pride and domestic discord. He mourns the destruction of natural spaces that once nurtured children’s spirits and laments society’s apathy toward the mysteries of life and the afterlife, contrasting pagan and Christian poetic visions.

The final lecture turns to the mystery of life itself and the role of practical labor. Ruskin distinguishes types of wisdom—religious, contemplative, practical, and labor-based—and praises humble workers who produce necessities and delights for society. He tells a dream allegory of children quarrelling over garden pieces and brass-headed nails, symbolizing human folly and greed. He critiques complacency in art and national character, especially in Ireland, and laments the failure of human arts like agriculture and building to fulfill their potential, resulting in famine, nakedness, and homelessness.

Ruskin calls for making the most of present life with wisdom and perfect effort, emphasizing that judgment is continuous and daily, not only after death. He urges readers to reject excuses of social station to avoid useful work and prescribes a hierarchy of social duties: feeding the hungry, clothing people neatly and consistently, and providing decent lodging with sanitary reforms. He stresses that charity must be practical and organized, with work required of those able to work, and that public education is key to social improvement. He critiques religious sentiment disconnected from practical helpful action, advocating a religion founded on humble service and cooperation rather than pride and dispute. Finally, he calls for youth to redirect courage and intellect from war and word disputes to mercy, practical work, and faithful service, promising incorruptible happiness and a true religion grounded in charity.